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PEACE: Where do we begin?

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Yesterday I attended an event on a new concentration* being offered at Life University: Positive Human Development and Social Change. The subject of the discussion was Peace Studies, what it is and what role we play. This is a follow-up to that discussion:

At the end of the presentation, when some had already left, a question was posed regarding the daunting nature of all that has to be done and where one begins. I wished that I could have responded differently, but I thought of this after the fact on the same theme as “starting where you are and with what you have.”

In 2008, I met an American guy and his wife in Kyoto Japan who had a distinguished career in business (or something else… I can’t remember).  His hobby however was always miming (you know, a mime artist).  He got his wife interested.  They starting working as a team.  They then went into local elementary schools, hospitals, homeless shelters, etc.  Later in his life, he had the opportunity to travel with a humanitarian NGO doing relief work in Africa.  He visited a refugee camp in Sierra Leone. He was so struck with the bad conditions, lack of food, schooling, etc.  However, what affected him most was the broken spirits of the hundreds and even thousands of children who had been languishing there for years, not allowed to travel outside the camp for fear of their lives.  Every now and then, the camp would be raided by militias and people murdered within the camp.
He felt compelled to do something, but wondered, “what can I do?”
When he came back to the states, he packed him and his wife (of course she consented) and they went back to the VERY SAME refugee camp (with the same NGO, security clearances etc.) and entertained the children.  He got his other mime friends involved.  He hooked up with “Clowns Without Borders.”  Their skills were / are top notch! He showed us a video. They were talented enough to work in Las Vegas, but they chose to use their talents to lift the spirits of children and adults in refugee camps. The started “Mimes Without Borders”.

They started with what they do best and found a place where it was needed and valued.  We all have bills to pay and need money, so I am well aware that the only reason they were able to go for extended periods is because they had the financial resources to do so.  But some of their “mime” friends didn’t and they either funded them or helped fund them.

Who would have thought that on the chart that I displayed towards the end of the presentation, with all of the different areas of study and work, that some of the greatest workers for building peace, dignity, connection, etc. would be mimes and clowns?  Millions of artists, musicians, poets, rappers, architects, engineers, etc. etc. are doing the same thing.  It looks daunting, but the reality is that everyone already has a place in what needs to and can be done.  We just need to find the place / opportunity to plug it in.

If you have further questions about the field or the pending Degree Program, please feel free to contact me.  I am excited at the interest and anticipate that students at Life will have a tremendous opportunity to forge new ground.  I am honored to be a part of it!

Sincerely,
Thomas “Tom” V. Flores, Ph.D.
Assistant Professor of Positive Human Development and Social Change (PHDSC)
College of Graduate and Undergraduate Studies
Life University
Marietta, GA 30060

For more information on Dr. Flores, please see his bio.

Pending approval from the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools Commission on Colleges (SACSCOC) the B.A. in Positive Human Development and Social Change is slated to begin enrolling fall 2016.

Speak from Your Heart (Mindful Communication)

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How well do you communicate?

Communication is the most important aspect to any and every relationship. There are different types of communication: Verbal, Nonverbal, and Paraverbal. PLUS, your Energetic Space/Aura/Overall Vibe communicates to others as well.
As a counselor, coach, and speaker, I am constantly communicating. However, I too have made the mistake of misjudging or making assumptions while communicating with others (especially in my personal life). These mistakes can be costly…leading to hurt feelings, lack of depth, and even loss of the relationships.

Maybe you just celebrated Valentine’s Day or an anniversary of some sort. Good job, you’re on the right track! Now, take a step back and see what your partner, friend, coworker, etc. is communicating to you.
We can dive into the different types of communication here:

Nonverbal Communication– Most of our communication is nonverbal, meaning it is not what we say, but everything else…

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3 Keys to Invite More Love Into Your Life

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I’m sure you’ve heard the expression that love heals everything. However, if you are like me your mind may have found a few things it seems like love has not healed.You may have also recognized that while the idea of love healing the world sounds nice, it will probably never happen, especially when you see how a lot of people act towards one another.

Being that this post lands the day after Valentine’s, in a month centered around love, I feel it is time for you and I to look deeper at this powerful insight.

It is apparent there are countries fighting against other countries, religions clashing with one another, mass consumerism which has brought extreme poverty and horrendous living conditions to parts of our world, and news stations that remind us of all of these things 24 hours a day.

Despite these very real things taking place in our world, I challenge you to look deeper.

Are you able to see the love?

Are you able to see the “Golden Thread” that runs through all of these situations, whether beautiful or atrocious?

If so, this is real love. This is unconditional love that flows through all. It is deeper than wars, deeper than peace, it is the flow of love that is poured forth from that which we call Life, God, Source, the Infinite.

Imagine if you could move throughout your daily life connected to, and aware of this unconditional love?

Imagine if you could see your connection with all?

Love Matters

Real love, unconditional love, heals. I don’t want to speak in airy fairy ways so I ask that you follow my thought for a moment. Let’s look at how love can heal the ills we see on our planet.

First let us recognize that it starts with you and I. It begins with simple things like shifting your thoughts and random acts of kindness toward others. It blossoms from compassionate words and positive expressions that help you and I recognize the commonalities we share with our fellow man and woman. Seeing things from another person’s perspective breaks down barriers you may believe separate you from others.

Unconditional love also centers around honoring this sacred planet we call home. Unconditional love is about being conscious of where you put your resources and the activities you involve yourself in. Most importantly it is about recognizing the endless stream of love that flows in the depths of each individual. As you connect to this endless flow of love, you see it also dwells within all people, even if they seem to be surrounded by darkness.

Love heals… and you and I must be instruments of this love.

Love matters.

3 Keys To Invite More Love Into Your Life

#1 – The Energy Within – To invite unconditional love into your life and into our world, you must recognize the profound love that dwells in you. This love I am speaking of is the energy within. It is the energy in each atom, cell, tissue, fiber and organ. As you embrace this energy and life that empowers your experience, you effortlessly tap into the infinite love poured out from the Divine. Tap into this love and you will see it in all things.

#2 – Pour Love Into Your Consciousness – In the same way we can pour a pitcher of cold water upon us in the heat of summer, I encourage you to pour love into your conscious mind. Allow love to fill your thoughts. Filling your mind with love will rewire the thought patterns you have on a daily basis. By choosing to dwell upon the beautiful, you can see the very act of thinking is a gift of love contained within you. As you think, so shall it be. Think love and you will see more of it.

#3 – Live With Purpose – The final step to inviting unconditional love into your life is to make a conscious effort to love your gifts, your talents and the unique abilities you have come to this earth possessing. Finding love for these gifts will empower you to bring them out into the world, uplifting and empowering others through sharing them with all. Love to be your best.

Love Begins With You

Love isn’t based on roses we give to our significant others, and it is much more than beautiful poems on cards. Love is greater than incredible memories, more than pleasure or attachment to a person or thing.

True love begins with the idea that at the depths of everything is an ever-present flow of Life, of God, and where Life is, love is there as well.

Invite more love into your experience here and now.

 

Peace

Happiness

Compassion

Respect

 

Jeffon Seely, Three Key Life

Invite More Love Photo Credit: Unsplash

Clean Slate

A blackboard stood in the middle of New York City asking passersby to write down their biggest regrets. At first, each regret seemed different and unique. After all, everyone has a different story. But as the board filled up, we noticed that all of these responses had one alarming thing in common.

Every day we are given is a clean slate – what will you regret NOT doing?

Empty Yourself (to Serve)

Metaphysical Freedom

MLK Jr. -Service Quote

My passion is being of service, touching hearts, enlightening minds, guiding, and aiding in the realization of healing and wholeness. There have been several times when I have “missed the mark.” I thought that I was in the flow, being mindful, and in tune with the people that I love as well as the people that I serve.

Thinking this way, I continued in this blissful flow, forgetting an important piece of the puzzle: We all perceive things differently. While I thought I was showing love and being of the utmost service, sometimes the receivers of my actions did not feel the same way. The most sobering experience for me is to find out that I missed an opportunity to be of service because my own point of view misled the way.

Perception is powerful.

One of my favorite quotes says something like this,

“We are the Universe looking at…

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Craft Night & SLC Conference

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Join us on Tuesday, February 23 at 7:30PM for a Vision Board workshop and represent Kinetic Ascent at the SLC Conference in Salt Lake City, UT at the same time. Winning!

A vision board is a tool used to help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. Literally, a vision board is any sort of board on which you display images that represent whatever you want to be, do or have in your life.

Bring your open minds, maybe a mission statement, some old magazines and anything else you can think of for your vision board.

Represent Kinetic Ascent and to be the face of the young adult/young professional community here at SLCA. Dana and Jeffon will be representing us in Salt Lake City, UT and we’ll be live-streamed in to join in on the conversation on how to build up young adult communities in spiritual living centers across the country.

For more information and to RSVP, please visit the event page: Kinetic Ascent Craft Night & SLC Conference